My brand new friend asked to come to her home for the re-pass of her husband. I have only met her since her hu?

I have only met her since her husband passed recently. I know the LORD had me offer her comfort and I acted on holy spirit telling me to call her after the friends & family viewing. She said everyone scattered after & she'd like me & my daughter to come to her home. So we did. I feel very much compassion for what she must be going through. I am not certain that the re-pass is the place now for outsiders. She & I agreed that the quick meeting & leap of faith to trust each one was honest & good was weird to most people. They have a lot of teenage kids in family that my daughter can connect with , but do you really think they want newbies right now. We will remain friends & I know we will get together soon, but is the re-pass the place . Seems a lot of explaining to do for my new friend. I feel she can be more herself w/o that today. Am I being selfish by considering not going , after she & her sisters have expressed the invitation to meet the rest of the family ? If the lord wants me to go -Fine...I realize she is very vulnerable right now, not sleeping much & asking over & over WHY did he die & leave her and the family...they were only married 4 years 2 gether 5 ...Please help me decide whether to go today or not ?